Everyone wants to get paid somehow. — Nothing in life is free and you always pay in the end, the saying goes and I can attest to its veracity. But like many people, I believed this rule didn’t apply to me. I was special. I could get away with having someone work for me for nothing. …

I used to be afraid of my own sexuality. Spreading my legs wide during sex meant accepting myself. — Believe it or not, but once upon a time, I was terribly afraid of sex. As a younger woman, I couldn’t relax my body while a man was penetrating me. The truth was, I felt like I was a “bad girl” for being sexual. …

Because a penis is necessary for sex to occur. Not. — Why, what large feet you have… Must mean the rest of you is that big, too… Wink, wink, nudge, nudge. We’ve long believed the myth that the size of a man’s shoes indicates the size of his manhood. But is this actually true? No, it is not. British urologists published…

You may also notice more curvature in your shaft as you grow older. — The Massachusetts Male Aging Study reported that approximately 40% of men will develop erectile dysfunction by age forty. By age seventy, the rate increases to nearly 70%. As if aging men need something else to worry about when it comes to their dicks, guess what else they have to look…

Women still prefer average-sized penises over large ones though. — I recently published an article about a study carried out by researchers at the University of Göttingen (in collaboration with Clue and MyOne Condoms) that found that only 3% of the 64,000 women interviewed believed that a large penis was a “very important” factor in who they chose as a…

The term for this practice is “soft penetration.” — Erectile dysfunction (or ED) is incredibly common in men. Studies show that 3 in 5 men will experience trouble achieving an erection in their lifetime. The most popular solution may seem like the easiest: just swallow the little blue pill. I’m not judging men for taking Viagra. With the way…

A power imbalance is inherent in any relationship between a much older man with money and a much younger woman in need of it. — I was a forty-year-old sugar baby. Some people might find that bizarre. I sugar-dated after my divorce and, ironically, most of my sugar daddies didn’t care about my age. They preferred that I was a mature woman who loved sex and felt no shame in enjoying my body. Because we…

They want kindness way more. — In direct contradiction to what many men think, researchers at the University of Göttingen (in collaboration with Clue and MyOne Condoms) interviewed 64,000 women from all over the world and found that only 3% felt that a large penis was a “very important” factor in choosing a long-term mate. Sorry…

Just like the children of same-sex couples. — Remember when people used to worry about the children of same-sex parents? Queer people couldn’t possibly bring up kids in a proper way. They’d either molest them or teach them to become gay as well (as if sexual orientation can be taught). …